Daughter lied to current boyfriend about 'activity' with ex. When to 'come clean'?
I just found out that my 17 year old daughter lied to her boyfriend of almost a year when he asked her, early in their relationship, how far she had gone with her ex boyfriend. I was mortified last year when I found out that my then 15 year-old had had sex with her boyfriend. It was a bad time for all of us and they did break up and all was well...or so I thought. Last evening I found out from my older daughter about little sister's lying to her new bf when he asked her about her past love life. He is a great kid and the two of them are well matched in every way but I am led to believe it would be a deal breaker if he knew she was not a virgin. I have no idea if this is a frequent topic of discussion between the two of them (I would think it's not) but I feel she should remain quiet unless their relationship continues and appears to be getting serious. Any thoughts? Complicating factor? What if ex decides to spill the beans?