My DH & I are really having trouble with our 17 yr.old son. We're pretty sure he's ODD & also has ADD. The issue now is he's refusing to go to school & just quit his 3rd job in a yr. We don't want to give up on him but it's like he's giving up & we can't control it. Legally we can't kick him out till 18, but I refuse to watch him sit here all summer doing nothing. There's more to the story but we feel he's very spoiled/entitled, an only child, & don't know what to do. We've taken away his Internet, tv & he has no $$ & no car since he wrecked his recently. We are hoping he will break. Any advice would be great.