I am so frustrated and choking back tears as I type this. I have 4 children, 3 girls n 1 boy. My DD 17, the oldest had turned into a person I do not like. Asking her to do chores repeatedly and then half heartedly doing them, the mouth, attitude, talking back to her dad, yelling at her younger siblings. Just the overall typical teenage gripe, right??? Oh no it gets worse. Let her go over to my friends house to celebrate a birthday with friends daughter. It was a pool party. I get a call at work and my friend suspects that my daughter and her step son were doing something in the bathroom. I am work and cannot leave as I am working by myself. My friend said she was going to get to the bottom of it and call me back. In the meantime my daughter calls and I ask her WTH just happened. She claims she went in the house to change into her clothes, realized she left her shirt at the pool and asked the young man to get it. A family friend of my friends (20) says she saw both of them in the bathroom but wouldnt say if she heard anything. I wanna kick, scream, cry as I am stuck at work until midnite. I asked my friend to please bring her back to my home and I will deal with it then. I then called dad who said, call KAISER NOW! I cannot take this. Every since she turned 17 a month ago things have been a nightmare. I barely recognize my own child. I am not stupid and know that some teens are sexual. All I ask of her is if she is please let me know so that we can take the correct steps in protecting oneself. Abstinice (sp) would be perfect but we are all far from it. Just needed to vent and please forgive any and all grammatical/spelling errors. frustrated to no end. days like this I wanna run from being a mom.