My son barely qualifies for this category since he's now 19 but I need advice. In his younger years he got into trouble with the law a couple of times, gravitated towards the bad kids and its been a struggle keeping him on a good track. (Underage drinking, assault, unreported car accident...) After high school graduation in 2012 he didn't know what he wanted to do with his life. Since he struggled in school he refused to go to community college for the generals. He started working for a temp agency and tried a few fields. He finally decided to go to school for HVAC. He starts in August. With that in mind I pulled in a favor to get him an entry level position with an HVAC and facilities maintenance company. He's been working full time since December so that's good. Here's my problem. He's become a total disrespectful ass to me and my husband. He refuses to pay rent. I have to fight with him to pay his car insurance and for his portion of the cell phone bill. He's spending every dime he makes without saving any for school. He's antisocial and comes home and locks himself up in his room. When I offer him food he won't eat with us. (Of course because he eats out like a king every day.) I feel if I don't help him to make it through school he'll fall flat on his face like in high school. However - his attitude is causing nothing but problems at home. My husband and I are ready to downsize, quit our high paying jobs in the city and move out to the country. (We've bought the house and we're starting to clean and sell off extra stuff like the camper.) The only reason we are staying is to help my son. We've given him a timeline with specific goals. We've given him his car - so now he has to get his own insurance, school starts in August, the cell phone contract is up in December so that is when he's off our plan on his own. He got a student credit card to start building his credit history yet he refuses to sit with me to learn how to budget or review his spending. He has a year of classes at the tech school close to our house. The second year of school is an hour south of our house. I told him once he's done with the first year he needs to move out. Now he's all angry with us and totally out of control - staying our until 1am every night, won't keep his room clean and the arguing and disrespect is over the top. How do I deal with this? Should I kick him out now - while he "knows everything?"