I need some advice! Honestly my daughter is normally a really good well behaved and I feel trust worthy person. I am not just saying this because I am her mom but I really feel this way and others see it to but that being said... she has played minecraft for about a year now and loves it. SO about a month ago she told me she met a friend on there and her name was Jenny. She went on to tell me that they have so much fun building stuff and really enjoyed playing with her online. So honestly I didnt think to much about that being I know so many kids that do play the game and just thought she met someone that playes it like she does. Well long story short she started texting "Jenny" and sending picts of herself and talking on the phone to her..... Well come to find out IT WAS ALL A LIE!!!!!!!!!!! Last night about 12 her phones goes off and my husband goes and gets the phone and I see a text saying that "Jose got his phone taken away and he wanted to let you know" I read the text so many times in disbelief that this was what I was seeing. To spare the details she is grounded and the phone is permanently taken away and no minecraft either. I also had a serious talk with her... BUT her 13th birthday is Wednesday and I dont even think she deserves anything that we had planned. Can anyone give me some advice on what they would do and about how you would handle the party??