Since then, my father is paying our mortgage, and our bills are barely paid before they cut it off.
Our cars are so laughable, but at least I have one and my husband or dad can take me to the " long distance" appts because I can't drive on the highway w/o a panic attack and get lost even with the GPS ( remember , I can't focus a lot of the time anyway)
Here's the deal, my 14 yr old son has been way supportive through this, helping with his younger brother, and is like.... WAY helpful compared to previously behavior before the accident.
Here's my concern. He related a dream to me just now that we were given 15 hrs to pack up our stuff or it would be thrown outside and he said before he realized it we were living in a small apartment.
Now, I'm not an expert in dreams, but this was obviously a cut and dry worried about money dream. The foreclosure part and losing his stuff and all. I HATE THAT his sub conscience is worried about adult issues.
I tried to reassure him as best as I could that his job was school and helping me cheerfully. I told him that worrying about money was DH's, mine, and granddaddy's job. Then I said " now go play a game or build with your Legos because no one is coming after this house! No one even WANTS this tiny house and made light of " in fact, I can't imagine an apt SMALLER than this house!
( if anyone just has to know, our wifi is paid for by his biological dad, and we don't have cable, so nothing to cut out)
I'm just saddened that he's now having " worry dreams" ....afraid we'll be like what we heard happening to ppl on the news in 07-09