My 14 yo dd was away at church camp and a neighbor friend of hers that just moved in a month ago to our subdivision came to the door with 2 of her friends (girls from school) and asked if my dd was home. My dh told her she was at camp and would be home the following day. She had a birthday a couple of days before that and I think she may have had them over (maybe for a overnight), don't know. Would you think it weird or rude to not have invited her over first (like she did the other girls) than to just drop by with them? We didn't know who the other girls were and when my dd got home from camp so txted this girl and asked her and she just said who they were and the next time they are over to her house they will drop by. I feel bad for her it's like they were rubbing her nose in not being invited. Am I 'off' in thinking this? Would you if you were my dd or me?