The other side of the family has succeeded in turning my 13 year old son against me. He has reported me to CPS (false report of course) and I was investigated. He has not come back home since visiting with them in April. I took the police with me to retrieve him but they would not do so he was having violent outburst and they said it was a liability issue. So now I am going through legal routes including filing for custody to get him back so that he go through intensive counseling for the brainwashing. It has been devastating and I went through quite a depression. Sigh. I don't have any support during these stressful times.
Anyone else gone or is going through this?
NOTE: Since the child support modification hearing, his father has been angry with the fact that he was to be significantly more monthly. He and his mother has told my son that I get $800 per month in child support which is a lie (I get $650 per month) and I discussed this with my son and let him know that grown up business is to remain simply that. I confronted granny whom stated she never told him that. But df I did not since I know it will cause an argument and not even worth my energy. But over the past few years he has been fed lies that I am not spending the money on him which is another lie. I am a RN (for 6 years and a LPN for about a year before that) and make an exceptional amount of money a year as the majority of RNs do. They have led him to believe that he is better off with them. His father in the past has told him that if he lives with me he won't be able to watch tv and do all the other things he likes to do. I am the parent that sets boundaries and requires that extras are earned, not giving a 13 year old $100 sneakers when he is not doing what he is suppose to do in school and at home like the other side does.
I thought that there would be no issue with his father with us parenting him but obviously I was wrong. Because custody was never established, his father and I considered having shared custody. So in order to make the best decisions for him and his well being, I need to get sole physical and legal custody. His father filed for a modification in CS and did not show up for the hearing. All in all it is a lot of drama and I am trying to put a stop to it once and for all. My son should not be used as a pawn because they have sour grapes against me.
on Aug. 4, 2013 at 1:21 PM