Very concerned after a conversation with my daughter
My dd is almost 15. She has a boyfriend and he's a good kid. No complaints about him. His mother however is a huge pos. She's a horrible woman. Life at home for the boy is really not a great place to be. So my dd comes to me last night with a "plan" Which was for him to run away. I pointed out running away for him really isn't a good idea because he's not even 15 yet and could not support himself and it would actually be much worse. so she goes back to thinking then comes back to me again suggesting that him and her both get jobs after school and since i support her she could give him her money that way he can support himself. I pointed out again that even if they both had after school jobs and she gave him every penny he still could not support himself at almost 15. So she goes back to thinking and decided that he has to wait until he's 16. then she decided that sicne she will get to college first because she is 2 grades ahead of him that when they hit 18 and she starts college they can get an apt together then. I know she's just worried about him an all that. But she really made me start to worry with talk of running away. I was 16 when i left home and moved cross country with my then boyfriend (now husband) and she knows this and knows that it worked out for me. I'm grateful that she came to me with her "plan" but i cant help but worry.