What would you do if your teen was assaulted? (edit) she does not want us to hug her or kiss her....
She just turned 10 years old a month ago... Last night all in tears told me, that while we were visiting my best friend of 10 years, her son of 12 years old, locked her in his room and told her to put her pants down. She told him "No" but he did not listen to her and grabbed her by force and kissed her. She was paralyzed with fear and told me, she could not free herself. He forced his hand into her underwear and touched her private parts.
After, she told me all of these...I went to my friends house to tell her what my Daughter just told me, and I demanded to talk to her son. At first he lied and denied all. When I told him he better tell me the true or I call the cops, he told me what he did. He also, told me how wrong he was and how sorry he is... I hugged my friend, who was in tears as much as I was, and left!!
Thank you so much Cafe-mom's, for your emotional support through the distance.
Doing the best AS HER MOTHER I filled a report..... The child was charged with LEWDNESS WITH A MINOR UNDER 14.
While waiting the process to run its curse, My daughter is already showing sings of being affected by what happened...she refused to sleep by herself in her room; she is sleeping in our room, on a couch near our bed. She does not want us to touch her in any way of form, therefore no hugs or kisses. She is only allowing me, to do so and she said "BECAUSE YOU ARE MY MOM!!!" I am heartbreaking to see her going through all of this, please advice!