I have what I thought was a really good friend. Good sounding board for ideas, good listener for when I had problems. Lately though she's been going really quiet. I am high strung, I know it, but even more so lately because of the BS with my son. Now that the plan is in action for me to move to the ground floor with my daughters (who were already here) and move my son to the basement with his father (who was already there) I am getting greif for it. The quiet judging. The not wanting to talk to me, the not wanting to answer the phone, the constantly having somewhere she HAS to be at that moment I call.
Do people not understand that it is hard enough not being able to go to sleep in the same bed as my husband I do not need the judgement that YOU wouldn't do this or that it wouldn't happen in YOUR home? Yet you have no ideas to throw me? To offer me any suggestions other than "I wish he'd get his stuff together". Well wish in one hand and poop in the other, see which one fills up first.
OK Done rant. Thanks for letting me vent.
on Sep. 9, 2013 at 2:41 PM