So my husband and I found out that my sons girlfriend's aunt dropped her off at his college this past weekend! Of course we aren't supposed to know about it but saw something on facebook which confirmed it. We aren't happy with the gf to begin with-posted about this in the past, she is verbally abusive and controlling, that being said I don't think I would be comfortable with this whether we liked the girl or not. The gf has her whole family behind her trying to keep them together, would love to say to the aunt-so you wouldn't mind if I dropped your daughter off to her bf house for the weekend? Anyway I know that my son's room mate was away this past weekend, but he is in a suite and I also feel bad for the other suite mates because I'm sure she stayed there, unfortunately there are no rules preventing this at his college. And I know that anything and everything happens at college, but really do we need to promote it?! I'm not a prude, just have some morals that I thought I taught my son, but they went out the window when this girl came along (in my mind none of the adults in that family have any). The kicker is he is coming home for Fall break this weekend and she will want him at her house most of the time, pretending like they haven't seen each other since August, and the reality is my husband and I have not seen him since August and still won't get to spend much time with him because she will curse him out if he doesn't go over there! So would you be okay with someone dropping your kid's gf/bf off for the weekend?