Fast forward to last night, she sneaks out and is obviously gone again. Apparently her boyfriend has supplied her with a phone because she keeps posting on Facebook, rubbing her carelessness in our faces. Saying things like "being fucked is amazing" "silk sheets and squirting Mmm ". We didnt raise her like that!. We've done nothing to push DD away and make her act like This. We had an open line of communication, had the sex talk many times and how to stay safe, always involved in her life, supported her, taught her during teachable moments, etc. I'm so distraught over This and Well....DH is about to kill the boyfriend.
Just got a call from the boyfriend's mother yelling at us saying we dont supply DD with money when she asks! That we should get better jobs to support out daughter, that she is going to call CPS. on us. For future reference I work as a pharmacy tech and my husband works for a warehouse (making 16+ an hour weekly ). We both make great money, her boy has just turned DD into a brat! What do I do, This bitch is crazy and my daughter's welfare is at stake.
**EDIT 1** : apparently DD thinks they're getting married. Just checked her Facebook and it says engaged, she's gushing about him proposing. She has a picture of a rig...I tried to tinyeye it, the picture is legit: (. Can This day get any worse?
**EDIT 2**: just got off the phone and had a long conversation with DD. She calls me at one am This morning crying and begging me to come get her. I ask her why. See has the gall to tell me she's pregnant (great —.—) and she doesn't know who's child it is. Of course I asked her what the hell she means. She tells me "I let Alex talk me into a threesome with his friend who's 19". You did what??? Well apparently the kids mom overhead DD say she was pregnant and heard her sons reaction to DDs baby possibly not being his. She said mom started screaming and calling her a whore, told DD she was never to see her son again and dropped her off at a women's center. Naturally DH now knows, he said we should leave DD there for a week so she learns a lesson: (. I don't disagree but I also don't want to abandon my child. This girl is going to be the death of me. I also have to have a talk with Alex's mom about him writing about DD on fb.