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13 year old busted me having sex with my b/f

Posted by on Nov. 2, 2013 at 2:42 AM
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My 13 year old son found condom wrappers in my bedroom and asked me about them. He busted me. I was caught red handed and didn't know what to say to him. I didn't deny it and just said well yes my b/f and I have sex. Its a normal part of a relationship when 2 people love each other. I was open and honest but emberrassed too. Should I say anything else to him or just leave it alone?
by on Nov. 2, 2013 at 2:42 AM
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GleekingOut
by Silver Member on Nov. 2, 2013 at 5:54 AM
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Use it as the basis for your sex talk if you haven't already had one. Explain that you ALWAYS use protection because you can't always trust a girl when she says 'I'm on the pill'. Talk about diseases, pregnancy, and even the emotional side of things.
cybcm
by Bronze Member on Nov. 2, 2013 at 5:59 AM
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Good chance to talk about the importance of barrier protection.
fammatthews4
by Trisha on Nov. 2, 2013 at 1:15 PM
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Use it as an opening to talk about safe sex.
fammatthews4
by Trisha on Nov. 2, 2013 at 1:15 PM
Use it as an opening to talk about safe sex.
boys2men2soon
by Kimberly on Nov. 2, 2013 at 1:31 PM

Finding rappers is Not caught Red Handed, imo.  lol.   It could have been much worse and nore embarrassing!        Use this as an opportunity!   Great lead in to being responsible.




Andrewsmom70
by on Nov. 2, 2013 at 1:33 PM

Was he digging in the trash or did y'all not put them in the trash?

drfink
by Emily on Nov. 2, 2013 at 2:12 PM

agree

Quoting GleekingOut:

Use it as the basis for your sex talk if you haven't already had one. Explain that you ALWAYS use protection because you can't always trust a girl when she says 'I'm on the pill'. Talk about diseases, pregnancy, and even the emotional side of things.


drfink
by Emily on Nov. 2, 2013 at 2:14 PM
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I was kind of wondering the same.Maybe the new condoms in a drawer but just the wrappers.....?????

Quoting Andrewsmom70:

Was he digging in the trash or did y'all not put them in the trash?


bizzeemom2717
by Jen on Nov. 2, 2013 at 3:51 PM
Agree use as opportunity to talk about safe sex
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jenny3344
by on Nov. 2, 2013 at 4:07 PM
We accidentally left the condom wrappers on the nightstand. Not in the garbage.
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