I have heard of a boy doing all the work and not handing it in because the other kids don't. I don't know what to suggest though.
Maybe hanging out with kids that actually turn in their work and on time might be a good thing. Could start being a problem in high school if they want to get into a good college and/or get a job. They might be getting an F or an incomplete on it,if not handing it in back in the day.
when my son was in 7th grade he had a competition with his friends on who could do the worst in his english classes. his teacher had an odd system on when she would call home so It took awhile for me to become aware of the situation. he would do homework at home so that i didnt know something was up but wasnt handing it in.The teacher would only call home if he missed 3 in a row. Same with failed tests. So he would miss 2 homeworks then hand one in. test he would get 0 0 then a 65 so he would avoid the call home.
My SD(10) sits down and does her homework every night. Sometimes she spends hours on it (she is easily distracted and I frequently catch her daydreaming or just staring out the window.) She also has problems turning in her homework. Why on Earth you wouldn't turn in something you spent hours on is beyond me. I think it's an organizational and responsibility problem.
I know, I don't get it spending all the time it takes to do the work & not turning it in. What a waste... I do not have that issue with my 15 yo dd. Her work gets turned in but she has some trouble with Science tests. I have a friend of mine who does with her dd. I think her kid is fibbing that she got it done. How do parents really... know their kids have done the work just because the kid says so?
Quoting bizzeemom2717:Tell him you will go turn it in for him, lol there's an image problem for him
LOL I have been known to threaten to do this .I also told them I would use their cute little baby nicknames while talking with the teacher.Though it wasn't an image issue it was head in the air ,not being focused issue.Apparently not being sure if mom really would or not but not wanting to take a chance....cuz ya never know with mom...was enough to help them stay focused. ; ).......I would.
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