Now my dd is totally being a b*tch and doing and saying anything she can to piss me off. She is blaming me for everything that is a result of HER actions/behaviors. Now she is ignoring me because "you dont do anything for me" and my favorite, "you dont understand me!" I refuse to do anything for her anymore because of her attitude towards me and because she refuses do to ANYTHING to help the household or herself. Her grades suck. She even texted me that she doesnt care about her grades...only her bf's. So, she is going to screw her future for her bf who at this point, wont graduate because of his grades!??? When I try and talk to her, all i get is attitude (and i am not talking a LITTLE).
Her and her bf are getting stronger because "everyone is against us and we are the only one's who understand each other".
In the past 4 days her bf has been over...all day. This morning i see him being dropped off and i said, no. When i mentioned why, she turned to me with a dirty look. They ended up sitting out in the hallway for 2 hrs. I even texted him that "i dont mind you over but for the past 4 days you been here and i want family time". He texted me back with, "you sound just like MY mom". HIS mom is done with my dd because of the way she has been treating her and her kids, She has been exiled her from her home...but of course, thats HIS MOM'S FAULT...
At this point, I only buy her necessities. I only bring her places like doctor or school, when she misses the bus (maybe). She refuses to get a job but then complains when she wants something or asks me to buy it and i say no. i dont buy her things she dont NEED. She is threatening to move out when she is 18. Fine. But sad thing is that she has NOTHING. No whay to get there. I am out of ideas of what else i can do to encourage/teach her how to survive when she goes out on her own. At this point...she wont.