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Mom Arrested for Sitting Topless in Hot Tub With Daughter

Posted by on Dec. 20, 2013 at 4:50 PM
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Mom Arrested for Sitting Topless in Hot Tub With 14-Year-Old Daughter

by Kiri Blakeley

Add this to the list of "Things moms used to do that would get you arrested now." A mother has been charged with misdemeanor child endangerment after posing for a photo in a hot tub with her 14-year-old daughter -- both of them topless. The person who took the photo? Her other daughter. For whatever reason (kids!), that daughter took the photo and uploaded it to Snapchat, which allows users to briefly share photos before they disappear. But somehow the photo got around, and the next thing you know, pretty much everyone at her kids' high school had seen it. "This is an example of some extremely poor judgment by a parent," said the Wentzville, Missouri prosecutor. Or, you know, NOT.

The 50-year-old mom claims she was just getting out of the tub when her daughter snapped the photo and she demanded she delete it. Which obviously the girl didn't do. But the prosecutor maintains it was clearly a posed photo, with both mom and daughter topless, but covering their nipples.

Oooooo. Horrors.

One of my odder memories of growing up is going to the YWCA with my grandmother. After our swims, she would take a shower and then blow dry her hair -- still completely naked. She would come up to me and make conversation -- completely naked.

She was in a gym shower room. She was my grandmother. Yes, it was awkward. To this day, I don't know why she couldn't have wrapped herself in a towel. But it didn't traumatize me (much). Today, she'd probably be hauled off to the slammer. Though I certainly would have never taken her photo and uploaded it online.

This charge carries a possibility of a year in jail. Seriously, a state might take a year away from a mom and her kids because they aren't ashamed of their breasts?

I'm not even sure what the "endangerment" part here refers to. How does it endanger your child if he/she sees your breasts? Do you risk arrest every time you scurry naked from the bathroom to your bedroom and one of your kids might see you? What if your kid walks in on you having sex? What about breastfeeding?!

Authorities claim the mom's son, who attends school where the photo was being circulated, was "ridiculed" by his classmates. So now we are arresting moms who embarrass their children? You're gonna need a bigger jail!

And since the mom didn't upload the photo, I don't see what this woman did wrong.

Did these cops just need something to do that day or what?! Oddly, the 14-year-old daughter already had counseling at school because she'd passed around nude photos of herself in the past. Apparently this is a family that likes nudity? Maybe there is something off in general with this family, but this particular incident does not seem to warrant an arrest.

The mom and daughter were in a hot tub -- NOT a daycare center. If anything, it's the other daughter, whose age is never reported, at fault here, not the mom. She should definitely be grounded.

By the way, moms, you can disable your teens' cellphone cameras. Might want to look into that.

Do you think the mom should have been arrested?

by on Dec. 20, 2013 at 4:50 PM
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8chickens
by Member on Dec. 20, 2013 at 5:07 PM
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No, and it is about time womens breasts are not looked at as obscene.  Our entire familt has gone to nude/topless beaches together  etc. Hubby was stationed in Europe and it was the norm there and we continued when we moved back to the states.

cybcm
by Bronze Member on Dec. 20, 2013 at 5:07 PM

That is quite ridiculous.

atlmom2
by Susie on Dec. 20, 2013 at 5:13 PM
Indecent exposure is illegal. Appears to have been outside.
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elsters4
by on Dec. 20, 2013 at 8:51 PM
That's pretty ridiculous.
Pnukey
by Member on Dec. 20, 2013 at 8:55 PM

We see pictures of celebs all the time with barely just their nipples covered. They don't get arrested. This mom shouldn't have been either.

atlmom2
by Susie on Dec. 20, 2013 at 9:05 PM
14 yo passing nude photos. Sexting??? What is wrong with this family??
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drfink
by Emily on Dec. 20, 2013 at 11:05 PM

 Arrested , I don't know but there are some issues here that need addressing.Her daughter was sexting the year before ...NUDE...yet she is allowing topless photos to be taken.This is very poor parenting.

02nana07
by Ida on Dec. 20, 2013 at 11:59 PM
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 Sounds like her kids need a phone without a camera or internet but it also sounds  like they are nudist and have no problems with their bodies so why should they  go to jail for it.

Pink.Frosting
by on Dec. 21, 2013 at 12:07 AM

This is in-freaking-sane!  Mothers and daughters have walked around in front of each other topless since the beginning of time!  You change clothes or share a bathroom or in this case, a hot tub.  What in the world????

Lorelai_Nicole
by Lorelai on Dec. 21, 2013 at 12:20 AM

Yeah...Their backyard. (At least that's what it looks like.) Indecent exposure does not apply on private property.

Quoting atlmom2: Indecent exposure is illegal. Appears to have been outside.


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