My DD, she will be 17 in February, is dating a 19 yo boy. And before you say that is a huge age difference, he is a VERY nice boy and I know him really well. Recently at a doctor's appointment, I found out that my daughter is sexually active. I knew this day would come but it is still painful because I still think of her as my little girl. This is an uncomfortable topic for me and her, but I am taking her to a gyno. I don't want to put her on birth control because it will be hard for me to remind her to take "the pill" everyday. Please give me some advice on how to cope with this.