My son is 15. He has adhd so mentally he is more along the lines of a 12 - 13 year old. He is a freshman in highschool, he earned his varsity letter for cross country and he is on the honor roll. He is dating a girl he met on facebook that goes to middle school in our school district. Initially I gave this little girl the benefit of the doubt. I let her come over and watch a movie. In the car on the drive from our house I hear her talking about how she and a friend took her moms car and drove it around the trailer park that she lives in and how she gets detentions and Saturday schools and her grades suck. Real winner here I am telling you. When we get back from dropping her off two boys were coming to visit her at her home. Well I monitor my son's facebook. Even while he is grounded from it. He lost pc privledges for being online at 1:30 in the morning on a school night. And this girl is playing him like a fiddle. My guess is she has atleast 2 if not 3 other boyfriends. My son really likes this girl. (I dont know why) She swears up and down she doesnt have other boyfriends but atleast 1 other person has told him she is dating this other kid. And she tags him in all her I love you statuses along with my son. (She knows he isnt allowed on the pc) He asked her about it once and she said she did it on a Dare. WTF? But here is the real kicker when I asked him he said she was 13 and in 8th grade and I just found out she is only 12 and in the 7th grade. Big no nos. Anyway her grandparents with whom she lives says they are moving over an hour away which is fabulous but we shall see if this ever comes true. My guess is it probably wont.
Anyway what do I do? I am not taking him to see her or allowing him to see her and he is going to his dads this weekend which is 45 mintues away. Do I just let it go and pray that she gets bored with toying with my son or do I try and talk to him? Do I butt out?