My son is 17 & will be 18 in April.
He is never home & I mean NEVER !!!! Yes I do know where he is at, it is usually up the street at his best friends house. He will come home at night around 8 or 9 & then go to bed around 10, or 11. Get up for school. come home from school & stay for about 30 min
in the last 2 weeks, him & his gf of 3 years broke up & since then he has pretty much acted like he wants nothing to do with any of us here. Since Friday I have seen him a total of 2 hours & that is only because I went up to the friends house to hang out with his mom.
My husband is upset about this, & has literally seen him maybe an hour in the last 3 weeks. Hubby works nights, so when son is home hubby is either sleeping or already left for work. He complains about it to me & I tell him to talk to our son about it, but he said it won't do any good.
It has been causing fights between me & hubby because I am sick of hearing it.
Last time I seen my son at out house was Thursday night & we got into a huge fight because of his attitude, & Him saying he is an adult, etc... So Friday I did not wake him up for school, & I told him I was not going to because adults do not have their mommy wake them up, Also told him I would not be taking him to school on Friday because adults do not get rides from their mommy. So Friday he woke up at 9 30, got dressed & walked out the door, His teacher e-mailed me to let me know he did show up to school, so he walked. Besides when I went up to the friends house Friday night I have not seen him or talked to him,
I just do not know what to do or think, He has always been a mommas boy & would talk to me about anything & everything, We have always been very close & now its just nothing. I know some of it is normal, I am just not sure what parts are. & to be honest it is breaking my heart.
Between him & my husband I am going to go nuts.