Last saturday one of my dd's frieds (at least she thought they were friends) decided to have a get together. My dd was one of the only girls from her show that was not invited. My dd had thought her and the girl were pretty good friends and was quite upset that she was not invited. Well yesterday she gets the scoop on her friends that were at the party. Apparently everone got really wasted and did very inapropiate things with eachother. I went to HS parties as a teen myself and watched those around me turn into drunken (insert bad word) i was the non drinker always. I was the sober friend who kept my friends from doing stupid things. It just seems strange to me that my dd is at the age where she has friends who behave in such a way. she is glad now that she didnt go and totally gets why she was not invited. she had another friend yesterday invite her to a picnic. Which she is happy about. She's also decided to keep some friends school only friends and will hang out with the type of kids who want to have picnics outside of school.