My son is 14 and right now I would love to put him with his father (would never happen as his father is not a good person or role model). My son is very defiant and angry. He would never hurt me physically but the emotional pain hurts worse. He was put on some ADD medicine 4 months ago and that turned his grades around, he was then put on some mood disorder medicine 3 months ago and that seem to be workinig also. But now he has found a girlfriend and he feels that he does not have to follow rules at home or at school. I had to hunt him down last weekend because he was not where he said he would be and then he got very upset with me when we finally found him. I stay on top of his school work with corresponding with his teachers on a weekly basis. He lies all the time, never know when to belive him or not. We have taken away his cell phone, his computer, his xbox, everything that means anything to him and it is not helping. I am at my witts end but am not willing to give up on him. He is not a terrible kid, meaning he does not skip school, get in trouble with the law, not sure about drugs but i dont believe he is doing any. Is there any suggestions out there as to what i can do to get him and keep him on the right path.