Help! Like Daughter's 1st Boyfriend, but found hickie after telling not to do this again
I really like my daughter's first boyfriend. He is respectful of her and a gentlemen at our house. He enjoys visiting with us and invites her out a lot. His family values are similar to ours. They are both 15 and attend different schools. They have been dating officially over two months.
A month ago our daughter had a hickie on her neck. We told her and also him that we do not approve of this as it is disrespectful. Well, today I took my daughter to her doctor as she is ill and the doctor looked at her arm (as did I) it looked to me like there were burns or someone had squeezed it. When I asked her what happened, she mentioned her boyfriend. I asked if this was hickie(s)? She said yes.
I know it's not the neck, but it looks so strange on her arms. I still feel it's disrespectful to her. I have told her my feelings and don't want to give ultimatums. It's hard to weigh the good with the bad. Any advice would be so greatly appreciated.