I am the stepmom to two wonderful teenagers. However, the daughter who is 13 is having some behavior issues. Per her Dad I monitor her facebook (I know some will critize this but we feel like its the right thing to do). I was on her facebook the other night checking her messages and I saw some very explict (granted I am about to be 30 and would never say the stuff she was saying) messages to a boy. We have taken away her phone and facebook for a month. I have no idea how to react to this. I just really need some help on how this should be handled.