Never really happened but my 20 yo looks all of 13 so men are not interested. My 23 yo looks young but at least looks 20.
Not that it gives them the right at all, but does your dd look way older than she is??? I would be mad as well.
Does she look years older?
Quoting Serendipitous1: My DD is only 15. She is a pretty girl (and, innocent). She does not notice. It's happened a lot lately and I just want to speak up and say something, but I do not like confrontation. ; (
That would infuriate me too. I would tell them off. Why not?
Quoting Serendipitous1: No. She looks 14 or 15 and this is what infuriates me!
Ignore it plain and simple. Nothing is going to stop men young and old from looking at good looking women both young and old, period end of story. As long as no one is touching or making outrageous remarks jst let it go they aren't blind or dead. It's been happening for eons and will continue to happen until the end of time.
I just shoot them a death stare and get on with my life. I don't want to make my daughters feel self-conscious by making a big deal out of it.
My oldest has my mother-in-law's body shape, which includes a size F bust. She gets noticed, and she always has, doesn't matter what she is wearing, some moron will look, and unfortnunately, every now and then some even bigger moron will comment. She's very much aware of it though, she's 19 and is confdent enough to put people in their place, when she was 15 it wasn't the same story though and it used to make her very uncomfortable.
I'm unable to keep my mouth shut in those situations and I would wait till I was in line with them and then I'd hiss "She's fifteen!" Does she dress age appropriately?
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