My dd is making a huge mistake and I can't stop it :(
There is a bit of a back story so here goes:
2 years ago my dd was gong thru a rough time. Its when her stalker first started his stalking. She met a boy and he was really nice to her and they became fast friends. She really needed a friend at the time. He eventually wanted to be more than friends and pursued her in that way hard core. She found out he technically had a girlfriend who was away for the summer. So they just remained friends but not for lacking of trying on his part. They were really close tho. Then after summer ended and school started and they went to different schools they kinda stopped hanging out. He started spending most of his time with friends and the girlfriend. FF to spring last year and he started showing up again. They started to spend alot of time together again. He still had a girlfriend which he broke up with soon after hanging out with my dd again. She had a boyfriend at the time that was getting close to breaking up. He was an ass big time. Mean and rude and just a jerk. The friend who we will call K became super sweet. He was the total opposite of the boyfriend. Eventually my dd got fed up with the boyfriend and they broke up late may. K really started to pursue my dd after that. July they became a couple. They had a great summer and my dd really really liked him alot. Well school started up again in Sept and he started to change. Almost avoiding my dd most of the time. In Oct he breaks up with my dd. She was really heart broken. Her first actual heart break. She moped around for about 2 weeks then one day decided she didn't want to be that girl. She didn't want to even see him at all anymore but he's on the same running team as my younger dd. They really haven't spoken tho since October. Until 2 days ago. He started texting her. Then yesterday after my younger dd's race she wanted to go to McDonald's with some of her team members so my older dd went along. Somehow K ended up treating my girls to McDonald's and walked them home. Then he stuck around. Tagged along to the laundromat wth my dd's approval and then hung out at my house till about 7pm. I see it in my dd's face that she has missed him . He comes off as a sweet kid but its obvious that he's just using her or plans to for the summer. I've pointed out the obvious to her and she says she's aware of his intentions.