I just found out yesterday my dd1 who is 16 1/2 had sex. I knew it was going to happen. We had open relationship. Our girls can tell us anything to me or their dad. That how we want it to be. But how I found out their is rumor going on about my dd and her bf. Her friend is alway talking bad about her one day another day they all nice to each other. She told me her bf cousin told everyone she just want to get pregant so she can had him all the time that he wont leave her. She is on depot shot.
She know how hard it is being teen mom because most of her friend is pregant or had child. We told her even though you on the shot use condom. So we know it going to happen but we didnt know when. I am not mad and I am not upset. I dont know how to feel. But how do you talk to her about it. I cant talk to her my first time becuase I was rape at 5 yr old till I was 12. So I cant tell her it hurt my first time becuase my first time did hurt becuase I was 5.
So I want some advise to talk to her about it without making her embrassment about it. I want open relationship and I really want to be there if she need us. We also told them matter what happen if she get pregant. She have us supporting her so she can finish school and college degree. I watch 16 and pregant and we both love that show but I saw how teen mom having hard time study becuase of baby and no support. Any advise will help.