My son's birthday is coming up and I would like to invite his girlfriend
My son's birthday is coming up and I would like to invite his girlfriend. Problem is my husband does not approve of her, because of her race. What I am worried about is that, after a few drinks, he might insult her. I can't talk to my husband about it - he does not want anything to do with this girl, so arguments like, you might get to know her better would not work. I don't even know how to present this to my son - if I decide to not invite her, how to explain my decision to him without hurting his feelings. Any advice?