My youngest went to live with her dad when she was 13. Our relationship had struggled over the years but I've tried so hard to keep the relationship close. There was a period where she didn't speak to me for 6-7 months. She finally. Started talking to me again and it seems to be good. It's been about five months now and I wanted to start reestabliahing my overnight visits with her but when I mention it she shuts down and shuts me out. She finally told me she's not comfortable with doing overnight visits and just wants to keep it like it is. On one hand I'm happy we are talking and seeing each other but I'm also terribly hurt she's not comfortable with overnight visits. She's 16 now, will be 17 in Nov. will it always be like this? Is this just teenager stuff? I'm so confused.
on Jul. 11, 2014 at 12:51 AM