I have 6 kids ranging from 16yrs to 20 months. My 2 older teens 16 and 15 have been pretty easy so far, my trouble is my pre-teens. 12 and 11, they are driving me, and everyone in the house, nuts! I have to keep reminding myself "I love these kids", which is ever more difficult with their hostile attitudes. I was glad to find this sight, I could definitely use the input.