FOR THOSE WHO DON'T KNOW ME, MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE BEEN HAVING TROUBLE UNDERSTANDING EACH OTHER AND WE'VE BEEN SEP. ON AND OFF FOR ALMOST 6YRS NOW. I JUST CAN'T LET GO! I FEEL A DEEP DEEP FEELING THAT I MUST NOT GIVE UP!
HE IS LIVING W/GIRLFRIEND. I WON'T GO INTO DETAIL, BUT WE REALLY REALLY NEED YOUR PRAYERS!!!!! WE HAVE 5 KIDS IN TOTAL AND TWO THAT WE HAVE TOGETHER. I HADN'T SEEN HIM FOR OVER 2 MONTHS, HE ASKED IF HE COULD COME OVER TODAY! YEAH!!!!
I'VE HAD A HARD TIME WITH FINDING OUT ABOUT THE GIRLFRIEND AND THE SHOCK THAT HE MOVED IN W/HER AND HE IS THREE CITIES AWAY! I DON'T KNOW EXACTLY WHERE HE LIVES. HE WOULDN'T SAY. HE JUST DISAPPEARED! FOUND OUT THRU STEP SON WHAT TOWN THEY LIVE IN. I THINK HUBBY IS MAD ABOUT THAT. BUT I FELT I HAD THE RIGHT TO KNOW. I HAVE OUR TWO LITTLE KIDS LIVING WITH ME. THE THOUGHT OF HIM NOT SAYING HE WAS MOVING, SO DEVISTATING.
HE CAME OVER TODAY, WAS GOOD. HE STILL LOVES ME, HUGGED ME WHEN HE LEFT. BUT ONE THING THAT BOTHERS ME, CAN'T REMEMBER EXACTLY HOW HE SAID IT, I WAS SO SHOCKED, BUT HE SAID SOMETHING ABOUT NEEDING TIME TO GET OUT OF TOUGH SITUATION W/ "HER", (B/C I ASKED HIM IF HE WANTED TO COME HOME. I TOOK THAT AS A YES) JUST DON'T KNOW WHAT HE MEANT. HE IS DECIETFUL AND LIES, DOESN'T OFFER ANY INFO! I HOPE TO GOD HE DIDN'T MAKE MATTERS WORSE FOR OUR MARRIAGE AND KIDS AND US!!!!!! I CAN'T EVEN SAY THE WORD...BUT WOULD YOU ALL PLEASE PLEASE PRAY FOR US?
HE STATED HE WOULDN'T GO TO CHURCH AND DOESN'T BELIEVE IN GOD ANYMORE. ( I DIDN'T EVEN BRING THE SUBJECT UP!) I KNOW HE IS MAD AT GOD AND MAYBE IS FEELING SO GUILTY, HE CAN'T FACE IT. I DON'T KNOW WHAT ALL HAS GONE ON WITH "HER" AND HIM, BUT DON'T I HAVE THE RIGHT TO KNOW? I DON'T EVEN KNOW HOW LONG THIS (2ND) AFFAIR HAS GONE ON!
PLEASE, SISTERS, PRAY, PRAY HARD!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH!
Medikel88
ok, here's the scoop....h. moved back home w/me after I bugged him and begged for two weeks or so. Now, things were good for about a month. But now, I want to know what happened with this other woman that he moved in with. He worked with her but he said she doesn't work there anymore. He admitted to having sexual relation w/her. But his behavior now is awful. He has many women on his facebook, some send him things that I would consider flurts. ie: pillow fights, hearts, ect. He recently told me to stay off his facebook page. I told him that his behavior isn't helping me to trust him. He said he wants me to trust him, yet he refuses to stop what he's doing. He said that he doesn't know most of the women on his friends list, that they are just in a game that he plays on there, and that he doesn't reply or pay attention to the stuff on his page.
Does he really think I believe that crap? Help! He's insensitive to what he put me thru. Said it wasn't an affair because we were sep. Bull! He refuses to talk about things that I feel I need to know. I really try to talk to him. He's feeling so guilty I think that maybe he doesn't want to talk, for that reason????
Medikel88
- medikel88
on Jul. 6, 2009 at 11:35 PM