even when they aren't blood related. My brother/best friend Jason has managed to screw up a perfectly good spring break for my daughter. He violated her trust by looking through her text messages and now she doesn't want anything to do with him. She was spending part of her time with him and his wife and had a lot of her stuff over there, but she's now done with him and her. She wasn't to be home full time. I am happy to have her back full time, but it's putting a strain on my friendship with them. And, of course, I'm in the middle. I just feel like crawling into a hole and not come out . . . and there is no real end to this. I just have to hope I can hang onto the depression and not let it get too big. I hate it . . .