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Why are some politicians forgiven in sex scandals?

Posted by on Sep. 22, 2009 at 6:49 AM
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The following is an article on CNN today by Jessica Yellin and I think it raises some very interesting questions.

Why are some politicians forgiven in sex scandals?

  • Story Highlights
  • Sen. John Edwards has admitted to an extra-marital affair
  • Observers say Edwards could redeem himself if he follows the accepted script
  • Other politicians have survived affairs and kept their jobs
updated 7:25 p.m. EDT, Mon September 21, 2009
By Jessica Yellin
CNN National Political Correspondent
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WASHINGTON (CNN) -- Damning new allegations about former Sen. John Edwards' extramarital affair are coming out -- this time, the claims could spell the end of Edwards' political career.

Former President Bill Clinton faced impeachment during the Monica Lewinsky scandal.

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While the U.S. has a tradition of forgiveness, politicians seem able to gain forgiveness from the public and come back after just about anything. As long as the offender apologizes, gets punished and seems to suffer along the way, they are forgiven.

Edwards admitted to having an affair with former 2008 presidential campaign worker Rielle Hunter. He did a mea culpa.

"In 2006, two years ago, I made a very serious mistake. A mistake that I am responsible for and no one else," he said during an interview with ABC News' "Nightline."

"I told Elizabeth about the mistake, asked her for her forgiveness, asked God for his forgiveness," he said.

But now he's getting the front page New York Times treatment.

The paper cites a book proposal from former Edwards staffer Andrew Young, who alleges the North Carolina Democrat may not have told the full truth when asked if he fathered the mistress' new infant.

"I know that it's not possible that this child could be mine because of the timing of events, so I know it's not possible," Edwards told Nightline.

The article alleges he's likely the father.

"Mr. Young, who has since renounced that statement, has told publishers in a book proposal that Mr. Edwards knew all along that he was the child's father," according to the New York Times article on August 19. "He said Mr. Edwards pleaded with him to accept responsibility falsely, saying that would reduce the story to one of an aide's infidelity."

Another ugly charge: Edwards promised his mistress a wedding after Mrs. Edwards, who has cancer, passes.

Culture watchers have said Edwards could redeem himself if he follows the accepted script.

"I think the wife's forgiveness is very important," said Leonard Steinhorn, a professor of political communications at American University. "He has to apologize. He has to repent. That is this Calvinist framework that our society works under when crises hit."

It worked for Sen. David Vitter, R-Louisiana, who's seeking re-election after a prostitute scandal. And Sen. John Ensign, R-Nevada, who's still in office after an affair with a staffer's wife.

Another model: Former GOP House Speaker Newt Gingrich who had an affair while he impeached President Clinton for the same.

Clinton himself moved on after enduring public punishment and is, many political observers note, highly popular in the United States and around the world.

So then why do others fail to win forgiveness? Those include South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford, a Republican, who has apologized endlessly. Or former New York Gov. Eliot Spitzer, a Democrat, who left office.

"There is an unseemly factor to what they did that sort of disgusts people that makes people think there is something fundamentally wrong with them," Steinhorn said. "And I think that is why they may never recover fully unlike Bill Clinton."

CNN reached out to representatives for John Edwards, Elizabeth Edwards and Andrew Young, the aide involved in the story. None of them provided statements for this story.

Posted by on Sep. 22, 2009 at 6:49 AM
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CaliGirl54
by on Sep. 22, 2009 at 6:58 AM

For me personally I think the Repubs pushed to ream Bill thinking it would ruin his career and force him out of office. As for the others I think there should be consequences as well.

 

Gramawmaw
by on Sep. 22, 2009 at 11:59 AM

I think I was most disappointed in John Edwards' affair.  I really thought he was a nice guy who loved his wife, his family and would never do anything to hurt them.  I can understand Elizabeth forgiving him under the circumstances--they have small children and sh'es dying from cancer--she had to think of their future.  I think a lot of the stories going around now are a lot of sesationalism to sell news--of course, they could be true too.  I really don't think he would be elected to office again--not anytime soon anyway--maybe in time people would forget. I do think that just because someone is a politician in office doesn't mean that they're immune to extra-marital affairs.  Unfortunately there seems to be a lot of that going around.  I've been surprised by some friends who have had affairs.  

skitud
by Group Admin on Sep. 22, 2009 at 12:07 PM

People have affairs. It happens in private and public lives all the time, and so the affairs in and of themselves don't shock me. I think a politicians private life where possible should be private. What tends to chap my ass when these politicians are caught, are not that they had the affair, but the despicable lengths they'll go through to try and hide the fact they did. It's when money starts changing hands, or campaign or government funding is used for these trysts, or to pay people off to try and cover it up that I get angry.

Marinemom03
by on Sep. 23, 2009 at 9:27 AM

I am actually tired of hearing about everyone sex scandle. I think the only ones that should know about this are the ones involved. I don't want to know whats going on in other peoples bedrooms,I can barely keep up with my own sex life .LOL

Gramawmaw
by on Sep. 23, 2009 at 11:12 AM

I think a politician's private life should be private too.  I think they've carried this idea of the people's right to know too far.  I too, am getting tired of hearing about all the sex scandals--I wouldn't want my private life put out there for everyone to read.  I wonder how some of these reporters would like to have their private lives written about so publicly.  They should think about that sometime. 

Pat

Bonnie_
by on Sep. 27, 2009 at 12:31 AM

  First of all I have to say... Dang he looks old!    Heh.     The mayor of Los Angeles  was carrying  on an affair with the local  TV  news reporter.  Going   and  meeting  up with  her at her place.   Here she   is interviewing  the  man on  TV  and  they  have  been  having  having this long affair.  Finally  he gets  busted  on it.   He  leaves  his wife and kids..  I  can't remember if the reporter  got  fired.  Maybe  just transferred.  But  they are now married  and  he is still mayor.   There was a time  when  we the people  would not have stood for  such a blatant disrespect of morals and family values.   Shame on those  who do those things.  At least  his  now ex wife  was happy to see him go.  She  received  public sympathy  but  not  enough for  the city to call for him to step down.   As  for Hilary...  I dunno... I sort of lost respect  for her for  staying  with someone  who  would  publicly  shame her in that fashion  and to find out  he has had multiple affairs?   With Hilary, I was angry that she would stay with and support a liar to further  her own career.   She will never have my vote on anything.  The  thing  that got  me  most  angry  about  Clinton,  was that he went on TV  wagging  his finger at the camera  saying, " I did not have sexual relations  with that woman!"    Basically  saying  that girl was a liar.    Maybe she wasn't  all innocent (I think she was  dumb  more than anything) but he LIED  on TV  and under oath  and   what  jail time  did he serve?

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