I wanted to share with everyone the signs we've gotten so far from Harley! Here goes:
First sign: Cameron was lying in bed one night, really missing Harley. He rolled over and made a little spot for her, like she was really there. Next thing he knows he can actually FEEL her there! She knew he needed her so she came and visited him! How cool is that?
Second sign: I was in the shower, washing my hair, when I realized my left pointer finger hurt. I looked down and see an indent like one from a ‘hair tourniquet'. Let me explain: When Harley was about 4 or 5 months old, we were giving her a bath and noticed one of my hairs wrapped around her finger on her left hand (it may have even been the same finger!). We tried to cut it off, but it was on too tightly. We took her to Urgent Care, where they told us this was actually quite common. The hair gets wrapped around the finger and then starts to tighten, hence the name ‘hair tourniquet'. They had to poke and prod her poor finger with a needle to try and cut the thing off. Poor baby girl. They almost had to send us to the ER! They finally got it off and her poor finger had such a deep cut on it from that stupid piece of hair. We had to put antibiotic ointment on it to make sure it didn't get infected. Anyway, so I look down and see the exact same mark on MY finger. There is NO way my hair made that deep of an indent in my finger. Crazy thing was it was only on the top of my finger! It went away after a few minutes, but that had to have been Harley!
Third sign: Last night, I brought 6 huge balloons (they took up my whole backseat!) and a plant with yellow flowers to Harley's grave. I tied the 6 balloons onto a weight and then onto a garden stake we have there. I only tied 1 knot, but figured with 6 huge balloons on 1 side of the ribbon and a weight on the other end, there's no way the balloons should come untied, right? Wrong. I then bent down to try and get some wax off some fake flower petals that were in a candle holder my sister-in-law, Rebecca, made for Harley's gravesite. I noticed out of the corner of my eye that the balloons were a little farther away than they should be. I looked up and they had COME OFF THE GARDEN STAKE! They only floated a little ways away, so I got up, grabbed them, and then tied them back on the garden stake with SEVERAL knots this time. I didn't realize it then, but that was Harley playing around! My little girl is still full of mischief...
Fourth sign: On New Year's Eve, Harley sent us a sign by moving Mommy's 'Happy Birthday' balloon! It was floating right by the door, hooked to a picture of Mommy on the wall, but when I came in the room around 10pm that night (to charge my phone) it had moved! It was by my bedside, just floating there. There were no fans (or any air circulation for that matter) and it's never moved before (my birthday was on 11-19, so it's been there a WHILE). How awesome is that? I love my little girl so much! <3
It's so nice to know that Harley still has her playful attitude. She's still the same little trouble-maker she was here on Earth. We love and miss you, Honey Bear! You'll always be my little girl. We'll see you again one day in Heaven. <3
thats awesome that your princess is still coming to visit you.
Proud mommy to Corbin Sage (1-3-08)
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She is still a playful lil girl. She wants you to know she is still around and happy.
Made by Emily J.
Wow, she is coming to visit you early!! She hasn't even been out of her body that long! What an awesome spirit! Enjoy every visit with your girl!
How amazing! She knows you guys miss her and she's letting you know its okay....:)
Oh Katie! That is amazing :)
I have to share a story....one of my great friend's and neighbor was killed in a car accident on his 17th birthday, his gf was driving but she lived. Where he was buried she lived close just to the north east. Now there was a south wind blowing when his parents went to bring some balloons out to his grave. His little nephew let go of the balloons and the wind started blowing them south. After a little while they stopped and started going Northeast!!!!! He was 6'4" and they stayed right around they height like he was carrying them they floated that way until they were to his gf's house then the wind swept them away back to the south! His mom was taking pictures as fast as she could and when they got home to get the pictures developed there was no film in the camera even though she had loaded it then night before!!!
It is amazing the "stories" happen!!!!! I have so many more it is so coool!
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on Oct. 1, 2009 at 3:29 PM