My dh and I have been together for 5 yrs married for almost 4 and I have 3 sd and 2 bio-sons. Got along great with all 3 sd in the beginning. Now I'm so sick of their shit sometimes I can't take it. Oldest sd is 20 now and on her own(ish) with her son about to turn 1. That wasn't fun to deal with but we muddled through and have been there for here as much as possible. I should mention that our youngest son is 3 months younger than her boy. Yup, we were pregnant at the same time. Boy was that fun *note sarcasm*. I actually had someone tell me "in my day we knew when to stop". (I didn't have my first son til I was 32). My youngest sd is 10 going on 20 with all the attitude to match. Her bm ignores her so we thought she would be the tough one. Well, I think my middle sd who is 18 topped her. She dropped out of high school and beauty school because she "couldn't handle it" and a couple weeks ago got arrested for minor in possession. Last night she called my dh to inform him that she's now pregnant. For crying out loud. The two older sd have the same mom who has been in their life and they live with her, well, lived with her. the 18 yr old keeps getting kickd out because of the shit she puts them through. I should also mention she's bipolar and refuses to take her medicine regularly and she was molested when she was 12. We've had her in counseling but she won't talk. We tried everything with her. I honestly feel like this is more than I signed up for and then I remind myself my dh is going through this too. It's always drama, ALWAYS. I just keep thinking my two little boys don't need to grow up around this shit. I've always tried to be there for them but at what point do you say enoughs enough? I should add that the 18 yr old and my dh and I have not been talking since she emailed him to say I'm a lazy ass housewife who makes dh kill himself working and that he's pussywhipped for allowing it. I'm a SAHM with an almost 3 yr old and 7 mnth old and my dh gets pissed whenever I bring up going back to work (he doesn't wanna deal with daycare/schedule issues/etc). I just want one month without drama. Is that too much to wish for?