thing is i dont have a problem per say with my dad it is just my sister lives with him and i dont want to see her, i have some stuff up there and i need to get it back, but when i stayed with him a few days he was a butthead to me and my son so there is some hard feelings there too. but if something happens to him i would never get my stuff back evil sisters and all................ so really need to get my courage up and go see him, wish me luck.
that is a sticky situation. My brother lives on and off with my mom and dad...when he is not in jail and since I dont want anything to do with him there was a few times I put off going to see them. I went through the same kind of issues you are...what if something happens and I didnt go...(my parents both have health issues so I worry about those kind of things). Hope you make the choice that is comfortable for you. Do you think your sister would be open to leaving for awhile if she wants you to come and see him so bad???
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well i asked my dad what her work schedule was so i could go then, but he didnt know, but im just gonna work up the courage and go up this next week, he is 74 and in bad health, my mom just passes last year and i let my sisters turn me off from seeing her as much and i do regret it.
Well I hope it goes well for you. good luck and just try to spend as little time with the sister as you can=) Let us know how it goes..
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"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it." -Maya Angelou
"We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are." - Anais Nin
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did you end up going??
Wife to Josh
"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it." -Maya Angelou
"We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are." - Anais Nin
Come and check out my group- Dyfunction Junction @ http://www.cafemom.com/group/dysfunctionjunction
no, i keep putting it off, and making excuses in my head, part of the problem is also my dad hates my husband, and i left my husband for 9 months and my dad and sister were so happy, i couldnt find a job, and my son turned 18 so i lost my state help so i got evicted and so i tried to live with my dad and sister, i lasted 4 days, and my son was with a friend and when he got to my dads my dad was so horrible to him we went to our group and my son said i will never go back there, so we asked my husband if we could move back home, so five months later we are still here and working things out, so my dad is mad i moved back home, so that is another reason i dont want to talk to him
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