Ok My mom and her hubby are both addicted to pain pills and sleep in the bed all day
They have like 19 cats , they live in fitlh ( the neighbors say you can smell the piss smell across the alley )
They have disowned us ( me and my brother ) for suggesting the life they live is not normal
They verbally abuse everone ,
At my brothers house one of them took my nieces pills Vicoden , right after the poor thing got here wisdom teeth pulled ,
Finally someone called her out ,
she took back all the gifts she had bought his whole family (even the grandkids kiddie pool they were swimming in )
My grandmother finally told her she needs to get some help
She says I just had two worthless ungrateful kids they are the one with the problems
My grandma 87 years old says YEAH Right
I may be a slob and would have a house full of cats too, but I would never take pain pills from anyone. That is just sick behavior. It's sad your grandmother saw it, but that they don't . . . so people . . .
Kitty
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yeah that was the final straw for my bro His daughter had just had the wisdom theeth pulled and had the full bottle of meds , My mom and stepdad were in the house all day ( too much sun ) cause they stay in bed all day, All the kids were in the blow up pool and the adults were grilling. The pills were in Stephs room ( no excuse for anyone to go inthere ).
Later when Steph needed a pill the bottle was gone , It was sad to hear how she suffered because Her doc would not refill the script , ( he believed they were stolen but the law ya know).
I have nothing against cats but they don't ever change the litter pans and they are not trained so they pee all over the house .
My mom Does not cook they order everthing delivered and never take the trash out , I am not judging a bit of slobiness but the city has fined them for the smell and the yard that is extreme to me.
Quoting KittyMallory:
I may be a slob and would have a house full of cats too, but I would never take pain pills from anyone. That is just sick behavior. It's sad your grandmother saw it, but that they don't . . . so people . . .
Kitty
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Yikes!!! The city fined them and they still haven't done anything about it?? That is a bit extreme . . . Wow . . . And that is so sad for your niece. The laws have gotten a lot tighter over the years because of people abusing those pills. that woman should be ashamed of herself, but I know she's not.
Kitty
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That is sad...but that is how my mom's house looked a few years ago...only she didnt have the excuse of being strung out, it was just nasty. When she moved out and the landlords were cleaning it they just ripped all the carpet and linoleum out and put new in instead of trying to clean it. Now my mom and dad live back together and their place is so nasty I usually wont stay there, I go stay with friends.
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I won't go there ( I live 900 miles away for years ) but I will stay at my brother or grannys house I break out in hives from the cats ( allergies) She gets pissed about that too
This woman abused us as children and has had the world convinced that we were bad people but now the family is starting to see the truth about her . Her drug problem really only started a few years ago, The think is since she is drugged up all the time her true character is showing,
Her house is filthy because it was always my and my bros job to clean it ,
If she found a dirty dish we had to wash every dish in the entire house , So to see her living this way is a shock to my grandmother
I will bet that it was a shock!!!!
Wife to Josh
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"We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are." - Anais Nin
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There is a few people in my life that have said it to me and I was relieved to hear that someone finally believed me but I was wondering what the hell took them so long too....yea I know what you mean=) I got an email from one of my moms lifelong friends the other day asking me if I parent like my mom did....LOL and then she started telling me all this stuff that my mom used to do and say to me that I didnt even remember....she told me that she wanted to take me into "protective custody" and that is when I wanted to say....SO WHY DIDNT YOU EVER DO ANYTHING??????
Wife to Josh
"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it." -Maya Angelou
"We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are." - Anais Nin
Come and check out my group- Dyfunction Junction @ http://www.cafemom.com/group/dysfunctionjunction
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- CSRodriguez
on Jun. 29, 2009 at 2:49 PM