i've been asking myself ever since i found out that we are having a boy whether or not it would be wrong to have another baby shower? to me it really doesnt sound bad b/c, given the circumstances, i kind of need one. my daughter will be 4 1/2 when her baby brother is born. so yeah the clothes and things that i have saved are 95% girl stuff and 5% neutral gendered. its been over 4 yrs since i had my daughter, and most of her stuff i have either given to ppl i kno who could use them or tried to sell at yard sales etc.
my sis-in-law is overjoyed at the fact that she's going to have a nephew and really wants to throw me a shower. i guess i really cant stop her from doing it, but i just dont want my entire family(which is all my husband's side b/c my family lives way too far away) thinking im greedy or doing it for the wrong reasons.
i could really use some advice from everyone....what do u think? is it wrong for me to have a 2nd baby shower? i kno there's no written rule but my mother-in-law pointed out while we were picking out things at walmart the shower that "she only had one" and my husband and his sister(my sis-in-law) are 10 1/2 yrs apart. she can be quite old fashioned at times, so i just want to put my mind at ease by maybe getting some different points of view on the topic.