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Tall Childern more aggressive?

Posted by on Aug. 12, 2009 at 2:53 PM
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  I saw this while looking up information about tall toddlers.


Tall Kids Are More Aggressive

Research carried out over an 8 year period indicates that taller than average toddlers will be more aggressive at age 11, and more likely to resort to violence in adulthood.

"Three-year-olds - male or female - who average just half an inch taller than their peers tend to be more aggressive than normal when they reach age 11," says Adrian Raine, lead author of the study. "There appears to be a critical period in development - sometime after age 3 but before age 11 - when a child learns to use his physical advantage to aggressive ends. Parents of tall toddlers - especially those who are very stimulation seeking and fearless - need to take extra care to drive home the message that there are a lot better ways than physical force to get what you want in life."

Raine, a clinical neuroscientist at the University of Southern California, led a team of researchers who measured the height and weight of 1,130 male and female three- year-olds in Mauritius, a racially mixed island nation in the Indian Ocean off the coast of Africa. The island's low emigration rate facilitated the researchers' ability to track the toddlers as they aged.

While toddlers, the children were ranked on several stimulation-seeking scales, including a four-point scale that tested their willingness to explore toys independently of their mother in a laboratory setting: 1) passively clings to mother; 2) shows interest in toys but stays close to mother; 3) leaves mother to explore toys but returns to mother; and 4) actively explores toys without returning to mother.

The researchers used several fearlessness scales, including a five-point scale - ranging from 1 (representing no crying) to 5 (representing uncontrollable crying) - to gauge how fearful the toddlers were while undergoing testing for physiological arousal.

When the children reached age 11, their mothers answered questionnaires to measure the youths' aggressiveness ("fights," "is cruel," "swears" and "threatens"). Youths ranked by their mothers in the highest 15th percentile on an aggression scale were found to have stood, as toddlers, an average of one-half inch above their peers.

Raine believes a male hormone may play some role. "We know that people who are taller have higher testosterone levels," he explains, "so tallness in toddlers may be a marker for increased testosterone. Although the findings are debated, quite a number of studies have shown that violent offenders are higher than normal in testosterone."

Social learning theory suggests a further explanation. "A big toddler eventually learns that he can use force to get what he wants from other kids," Raine says. "So by the time the child reaches 11, aggressive behavior is ingrained - whether he still is taller than his peers or not."

The connection between aggressiveness at 11 and a toddler's height or propensity to seek stimulation could not be explained by differences in family income, educational attainment among parents or any other aspect of the child's socio-economic background. The link to aggressiveness at 11 was as strong for tall female toddlers as for tall male toddlers.

"We're saying there are early markers - warning signs, really - that are predictive for future aggressiveness and possibly even for violent crime," Raine says. "But it's not a one-to-one relationship. Not every tall child is going to be aggressive, and not every stimulation-seeking child is going be aggressive. Such children are just more likely to be aggressive."

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What do you think about this?

  I personally don't think Aidan is more aggressive at all. At 2 he is more polite than 90% of 9 year olds we see. He shares, waits his turn, say please and thank you, etc.

  If anything Aidan is on the shy side.

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by on Aug. 12, 2009 at 6:31 PM

Thomas is extremely out going, and sometimes doesn't realize how big he is, but he's not really agressive. If anything, he's a pleaser when it comes to other kids. I hate the media sometimes!



by New Member on Aug. 14, 2009 at 6:25 PM

I went to Toledo and watch L'Janel get pushed around with a little brat half her size. Sometimes I wish she was more aggresive. I can't fight her battles when she gets to school.

Patrice Janel

 Wife to Lance04/21/06 mother to L'Janel Jacel 11/04/06 and Lawriel Jolise coming in 09/16/09

by on Aug. 15, 2009 at 10:50 AM

 Im w/the mom who said she hates the media sometimes!!! They also dont say what types of homes these children came from, if they were daycare children, w/sahms, education level...things like these are MAJOR factors when it comes to children!

Felix is actually more of the gentle giant just like his daddy. Felix tends to feel out a new environment and holds back till he is comfortable, he loves to give kisses and hugs and will tell you out of the blue Iluvyou! I would say he is more shy then outgoing.

by on Aug. 29, 2009 at 8:51 PM

That is so bogus. I was hugely tall all while growing up and I was never ever aggressive. In fact I always heard that shorter men were more aggressive (Napoleon complex). go figure. Just more garbage.

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