I have an aunt who has had breast cancer. My mom has had cancer twice (pancreatic and cervical). My dad passed away from lung cancer in 2012. For women who have had it, other than finding a lump on home exam, did you show other symptoms? I'm afraid to talk to my aunt because she has had a mastectomy and I don't want to stir up bad memories. Is it possible to have pain caused by breast cancer? I feel like I should know but I haven't gone to the dr because of no insurance until a couple weeks ago.