happy but terrified ..need your advice

[arianaarellano]

so i finally got the good news imk pregant again im about 15 weeks..im exited but teriffied i will miscarrie again: :/ ..im dreading the next docotors visit..what if i go and they cant find my babys heartbeat..i get scared over every little thing....like lately im scared bto even walk because if i do i get a pain between my legs...im praying everything is ok with this baby...i lost my first one at 9 weeks but didnt know until 11weeks..so im happy im farther than ;ast time but still really scared of the same thing will happen...i dnt know what to do..people keep telling me not to think about it too much and stop stressing out but its just impossible..any advice

[hope4miracle]

Im so very sorry for your loss.  i lost my little angel at 7 1/2 weeks but didnt find out until 11 weeks.  im not pregnant again yet, but can tell you i anticipate the same anxiety if i am lucky enough to conceive again!  because im not where you are im not sure my advice will help... but ive done so much research since my miscarriage and am finding peace in knowing that between weeks 6 and 10 are the most likely time to experience miscarriage if it will happen.  now that you have passed that mark and actually entered the second trimester, your chances of carrying your baby to term are very very good.  try maybe to focus on that.  yes there is a chance that something could go wrong, unfortunately in life - there always is, but there is a much greater chance that this will work out and before you know it your liitle miracle will take its first of many breaths in the delivery room.  fearing the worst is totally normal after the tremendous loss you experienced... unfortunately with miscarriage comes the loss of the pure wonderful bliss that pregnancy is suppose to give women.  i know a pregnancy will never be worry free for me ever again... but if for even just a moment you find yourself confident and enjoying your little bundle more than worrying, take a breath and enjoy it... those moments are going to be few and far between for many of us i suspect.  wishing you all the best and hoping you can find the strength to keep HOPE for this new little life.  I have 2 beautiful baby boys now and know that fighting for them now is worth every tear, worry and anxiety filled day you have.  xoxo