hi new here **our story**

[jellybean2012]

My dh and I found out the we were pregnant in sept. We were not trying (I was on bc) but I wanted to start trying but dh was reluctant. But God had a different plan. We were really excited and happy. We made it past the 12 week risky period. I heard the heartbeat at 14 weeks. Then we went in for the ultrasound to find out the gender at 18 weeks and there was no heartbeat... not crossed my mind that my baby would be that 1 in a 1000 that was a late miscariage (really should be called a still birth if you have to go through labor) we delivered a little boy on 12/20/11
It hard and we still get sad sometimes but we are ready to move on. We found out that he had a chromosome defect. In some of his cell were missing the x chromosome. Only 11% on the cells were missing the x. Not genetic and there is nothing wrong with dh or i to make the doctor worried about us trying again. And my doctor said she would have us wait till on more period (already had one) just to be sure everything is cleared out but if we are ready then we can try now. I want to try right away, but dh is wanting to wait. He kept changing the timeline he was thinking anywhere from right now to 13 years from now (dh is 22 and I am 21) but now he is saying try in april is his timeline and has stuck with it for 2 days, but with when I ovulate in april I would be due the day after our first baby was delivered, I don't want to do that. so I am trying to get him to agree to a compromise of trying in march which is half way between our differant timelines. Now here is to hoping he agrees. Pray we can start trying to conceive soon. Thanks.

[krazene]

I feel your pain! I just lost my baby girl at 10 weeks due to missing parts of her X chromosome on Jan 5.

I'm still waiting on my hcg to go down! 2 weeks ago it was 331 and I took a pg test yesterday.... Still positive : (

We will start trying again after my next normal cycle, but I'm scared! I lost a little girl to trisomy 15 last year, but I have 2 healthy children before her.

[jmerussgirl]

I am sorry.  Your story is kind of similiar to mine.  We had our baby boy Christian at 20 weeks in July.  We just got our go ahead to try again.  It was harder on me than I thought.  I got AF this past week and makes me think maybe I am still not emotionally ready for it.  We don't have a reason as to way we lost our baby no defects or anything, they just think maybe from an infection.  As for the dates I agree with you...if we conceive in March our baby will be due around the time that Christian was due so I think we will skip that month.  I hope that your hubby understands.  Mine has been a God send though it all.  Even when he probably thinks I am nuts he is letting me make those decisions.  :)  Good luck to you.

[BeautyFromPain]

Im so sorry for your loss. I hope you and your husband can agree and that you will get your BFP soon :)