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When did you try again? And what was the result??

Posted by on Mar. 18, 2012 at 5:29 PM
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I had my 1st miscarriage back in 03. 9mths later we got pg with my daughter. We were trying at 6mths after d&c but notta. So we stopped then got a huge suprise.. 2 1/2yrs later we had our son. 5yrs later (were not trying but weren't preventing it) we got pg again. Monday of this wk we got our suprise baby at 12wks. I passed my baby on our own Friday evening. We want another baby just aren't sure when to try. Im worried if the baby will make it. I can not explain another miscarriage to my children again. This time we are not telling anyone til we are in the 2nd trimester. So when did you try again? What was the outcome? And did you tell anyone?
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BeautyFromPain
by on Mar. 19, 2012 at 9:18 AM

I'm so sorry for your losses! I had a MC in Aug'11 @ 7w5d I passed the baby naturally but ended up in the hospital for 4 days because I got a uterine infection. We tried again right away and got pregnant right again but lost Angel #2 in Nov'11 the baby lived to 9w but I found out at 11w's. I opted for a DNC this time. We waited the alotted time and tried again and got pregnant in February but my positves that were very very faint faded away and it ended up being a chemical pregnancy at 5w. So now we are going to get testing done but are currently waiting to ovulate which should be this week. Hoping for the best we really want more kids! Praying for everyone here! Our testing appointment is April 5th hoping I go in pregnant and they can just help us keep the baby healthy!!!

momma1013
by on Mar. 19, 2012 at 9:24 AM
My angel baby took flight on Dec. 21st, 2010. I needed time, so we decided to wait until the Spring to TTC. After a few months of BFN, I actually gave up (it took 2 years to conceive DD and 9 months for our angel). Got my BFP on June 7th, and it was a shock! DS was born on Feb. 8th. We didn't tell anyone but my patents until 2nd trimester. Good luck! Also, you might want to visit the Pregnancy After Loss group. It's for moms who have had a loss, are TTC
Or pregnant. Hoping for a BFP for you!
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mommy74146
by Member on Mar. 23, 2012 at 1:18 AM

Been trying since August 2011.  Miscarried the week of July 12, 2011.  Still nothing.  I did get a faint positive this month, but started AF today so I'm suspecting a chemical preg.  I seen the corpus leutum on my ovary so I know something was going on.  I even cried at Happy Feet 2 the other night, super weird!  But yeah.. Nothing so far and i'm really starting to lose hope.  Everyone around me keeps having babies.  I'm getting sick of it.  I'm sorry you are going through this.  It's awful that such bad things happen to good people.  As for telling people, we have decided not to tell anyone until I'm 12 weeks.

Pamela84
by New Member on Mar. 23, 2012 at 5:35 PM
Quoting mommy74146:

Been trying since August 2011.  Miscarried the week of July 12, 2011.  Still nothing.  I did get a faint positive this month, but started AF today so I'm suspecting a chemical preg.  I seen the corpus leutum on my ovary so I know something was going on.  I even cried at Happy Feet 2 the other night, super weird!  But yeah.. Nothing so far and i'm really starting to lose hope.  Everyone around me keeps having babies.  I'm getting sick of it.  I'm sorry you are going through this.  It's awful that such bad things happen to good people.  As for telling people, we have decided not to tell anyone until I'm 12 weeks.




Aww Im sorry to hear the struggle your going through. Its not easy. It just doesn't happen like ppl make it out to be.. Don't give up hope! It'll happen. one of my good friends had 2 miscarriages with yrs of trying b4 she got pregnant & carried her now 3yr old son to full term. She recently had twins. She did go to a fertilty specialist. They went to get a 2nd opinion & had standard testing down. The only thing they did do was she did injections with her son. With the twins notta. Its sad how us women who want a baby can afford a baby have miscarriages. But the ones who dont want it or cant afford it have one! My prime example is my dh's step brother (we dont talk too) has 2 kids. wife & him picks drugs over kids & kids are being raised by grandparents. It makes me sooo mad! Do u focus on getting pg? My frd (one I tlkd about) she focused for about a yr b4 she gave up. Her hub swears she got pg cause they stopped trying. & (tmi) thy did doggie style & he made her stay like that for 5mins.. (something they normal dont do)... Maybe the "tips" can help u out some.. (ps I always get pg while dieting)
Sjulia2009
by Member on Mar. 24, 2012 at 3:49 PM
We had, so far two miscarriages. We are still trying til the doctor tells us no. I am tempted to try medication and see if that helps us.
PygmyPuff987
by New Member on Mar. 26, 2012 at 7:04 PM

We just started this month trying again, though it's not until the next cycle do we go back to the fertility specialist for assistance.  We tried naturally this month because we could.  I'm pretty sure this month is a BFN, which is fine.  I wasn't expecting it to work.  I understand not telling anyone until you are in the 2nd trimester.  That's what we did and we lost at 16 weeks.  So now I don't want to tell anyone until BIRTH!!  I'm sorry for your losses and best of luck to you.

Karen (32) TTC #1 since 2/2009

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sjulia09122009
by Member on Mar. 27, 2012 at 3:36 PM

Let me see, we are trying right now and I think I have a positive test. I am not sure, since we took some time off after our last miscarriage which was in October of 2010. Here it is March of 2012. It is a little hard to get pregnant, for me, since I have one tube/ovary since I was 30. Our first miscarriage, ended up with a spontanious and eptopical. The second one was just a spontanious. So, this is our third time trying for a baby. I am just hoping and praying, the "third times a charm" works for us. I will let you know, once I see the doctor on the 4th of April.

Pamela84
by New Member on Mar. 27, 2012 at 6:34 PM
Quoting sjulia09122009:

Let me see, we are trying right now and I think I have a positive test. I am not sure, since we took some time off after our last miscarriage which was in October of 2010. Here it is March of 2012. It is a little hard to get pregnant, for me, since I have one tube/ovary since I was 30. Our first miscarriage, ended up with a spontanious and eptopical. The second one was just a spontanious. So, this is our third time trying for a baby. I am just hoping and praying, the "third times a charm" works for us. I will let you know, once I see the doctor on the 4th of April.




Praying lots for you! And crossing my fingers... Good luck ;)
I think were going to start trying around June. My kuds are getting big & I don't want the baby to be so much younger. If we get pg right away & nothing happens my 2 will be 8 & 6 when its born. Thsts already a good gap. I like my 2 being pretty close they play so well together. So too far out is going to be a whole different ball game... Keep us posted :)
wiggs24
by New Member on Apr. 4, 2012 at 7:53 AM

We are TTC right away- just had my MC on 3/11 from a blighted ovum at 8 1/2weeks. Hard to tell when I was ovulating again, but OPK's spiked around 20 days after MC.  We weren't that consistent in our TTC- every three days for a couple weeks. Have blood work on Monday to recheck my HCG levels - they were almost 0 about a 1 1/2 weeks ago so if they are not 0 or close to it then it might be that I am pregnant again. We will see. 

jmerussgirl
by Member on Apr. 4, 2012 at 10:03 AM

I had a miscarriage (blighted ovum) at 13 weeks, then got pregnant within the next month and have a beautiful daughter, then had a stillborn last year and started trying in jan and got pregnant in feb and just had another miscarriage last week.  If we do it again I don't think we will tell anyone till we have the baby the rate we are going.  Just too much. We are currently waiting on the dr to give us the green light and finish some testing. 

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