the other day I went to check my email and it was already logged into my SO's account (we share a computer) well i didnt realize it until I opened the inbox and there were emails from another woman (they had already been opened) so I opened them wondering what could possibly be attached to these email... NUDE photos of her... so this got my curiousity going so I checked the sent box.... (bad idea i know) well i found where he sent her pics back of him masturbating and pics of him right after orgasming...
I confronted him about it (he thinks I just found them in the pic folder) and he told me that he took them to surprise me when I was having a good day ( I have a few health problems and being prego has me off my meds so I have alot more bad days than good days...) I just dont know what to do or think..
He also sits on his damn cell phone all day everyday when he is home with me and is texting 1-2 maybe even 3 different females... but wont let me know who or what they are talking about, I know somethings are personal but he wont even respond half the time when I ask about them.. I have 1 of the girls numbers and I am thinking about texting her myself and letting her know how I am feeling....
Does any one have any advise or suggestions on what I should do...?!?
I would tell him everything you know and dont let him lie to you about it. Tell him everything and maybe he will come clean about everything. Maybe counseling? I wouldnt text the other women just yet not until you confront him first.
Sit down and have a long talk with him about the pictures and him texting. Try to stay calm while talking about this. If you get to the point where you want to beat him, take a break. Don't let him lie to you or try to wiggle his way out of the talk. And always follow your gut feeling. If you feel he is lying, call him out on it. Good Luck!
I have called him out on it several times, and he keeps telling me the same thing... it may sound retarded and needy when i say this, but with out him I have nothing, no house, no car, no money... absolutely nothing... I cant work due to health issues and they have not approved my disability yet... I do really love him and maybe it is just because i am "used" to being treated like crap because everyone that I have been with has treated me like crap..
Thank you for all the advise and I am going to try and get to the bottom of it before I just leave...
Oh and the girl he sent the pics to is his best friends ex and he says he did it because of his friends daughter.... and he would do anything to make sure that little girl is taken care of...
The 2 women he is texting are not in the local area so I know there is no physical things happening... One is in NY and one is in NC.
I had absolutely nothing when i left my Ds's dad and Im doin better than he is now... No woman deserves to be treated this way... I know it may seem like your stuck but your not babe not at all... My ex used to continusley lie to me after I knew the truth and when I left he decided to tell me the truth ( it was to late but he did tell the truth) and sending pictures because of the little girl?!?!?!?! are you serious buy the little girl christmas presents not send the mom pictures of yourself orgasming....(?) Does he take you for a fool? Please DO NOT PUT UP WITH THIS and it doesnt matter if they are not from around your place or not... he can always meet them somewhere
Quoting alishabear0808:
I have called him out on it several times, and he keeps telling me the same thing... it may sound retarded and needy when i say this, but with out him I have nothing, no house, no car, no money... absolutely nothing... I cant work due to health issues and they have not approved my disability yet... I do really love him and maybe it is just because i am "used" to being treated like crap because everyone that I have been with has treated me like crap..
Thank you for all the advise and I am going to try and get to the bottom of it before I just leave...
Oh and the girl he sent the pics to is his best friends ex and he says he did it because of his friends daughter.... and he would do anything to make sure that little girl is taken care of...
The 2 women he is texting are not in the local area so I know there is no physical things happening... One is in NY and one is in NC.
Is it possible? (piog)
- alishabear0808
on Nov. 15, 2009 at 9:53 PM