I am on bed rest and will continue till March. I have since the last year been hosting holiday dinners. My husband's nana use to have it at her house but has been pretty sickly and dealing with cancer. I usually just make Italian Wedding Soup and the rest of the meal would be done by my mother in law. I feel really off in having one because I am stuck in my room in my bed. My house was chosen before because it is the bigger of the houses in the family and centrally located near town. I don't know what to do! Should I have it or should I not? Would you feel akward coming to someones home for dinner with the lady of the house being laid up in bed?? My mother in law has her husband hosting his family for the holiday dinner. She remarried and it is her step kids family so she is unable to host it at her house. I would feel that it be best to either have it at a restaurant or just scrap holiday dinners till like Easter where I will be mobile. However, not sure how long nana has to be with us. It may be her last Thanksgiving and Xmas and she is unable to sit for long periods at a dinner table and needs to lay down once in a while.