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Posted by on Nov. 8, 2009 at 10:10 AM
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well, heres my post. my husband got injured back in march on the job. we were getting workers comp. they stopped sending the checks. (pm and ill tell you that story) Got a lawyer and now we got a letter from my hubbys former employee stating that he was terminated because dr released to go back to work. (without seeing him. we wanted another drs opion) Which we did, and was finally told the truth. hubby will never be able to work again and will have to go through more surgerys to correct what the other dr did. well i signed my family up for help for christmas, and got the worst news ever yesterday, the got our application but because hes getting workers comp we dont qualify. i have two boys (1 in school and one starts next year) and a 4 mnth old daughter (who was in hospital with pertussis and still has it) if anyone knows where we can get help please tell me. i would love to win a gift card from cm and kmart. i love kmart.
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MarthaCrocker
by on Nov. 8, 2009 at 10:16 AM

Have you contacted Salvation Army , they will help with gifts, and dinner. They put the kids names on list and put on trees and the kids will get nice gifts, they will give you enough food for a big holiday dinner, and they donate a little extra for under the tree, hats scarves, mittens stuffed animals . Give them a call., they will help even if they are done taking names, sometimes they will try their best. Good Luck with everything and I hope things work out for you and yours.

Chrystal_A
by on Nov. 8, 2009 at 10:25 AM

toys for tots,and I recently found a site that might be usefull by paying a bill for you.modestneeds.com

We are in about the same boat this year have no clue how we are going to make it ,we dont qualify for help because we are not low income however there is no room in our budget for christmas,we normally get a christmas bonus but this year we are fortunate to even have a job. 

KangaT
by on Nov. 8, 2009 at 10:38 AM

there are so many families in need this year. mine included that gc will be a blessing to anyone who receives it.

Mommy2Kaelen
by Member on Nov. 8, 2009 at 1:18 PM

I know we are all wishing for it.  I just hope that whoever it goes to truly needs it and is blessed by it.

Mrs.Pool2Be
by Carolyn on Nov. 8, 2009 at 1:26 PM

I am sorry you are going through this right now at the holidays.  The only ones that I can think of that would help has already been mentioned, maybe you could call a church near you and they would offer help for your kids.    

      

bergencounty
by Member on Nov. 8, 2009 at 2:51 PM

Glad you have a lawyer to sort thru that mess. I was in a similar situation ...hit by a truck on the way to my client. Guy that hit me had revoked license, and no insurance.I was cut out of my car and airlifted to trauma center, and  was out of work for nearly three years. I had several surgeries, yes sometimes you need several to correct the same injury.

Just keep track of all the medical bills and make sure they get paid, so that it does not affect your credit rating. If there is a problem, put it in writing; document everything.  I got four second opinions on my initial surgery ... all is paid by employer.

Now that hubby is home, can you get a job? http://www.indeed.com/

UPS hires seasonal helpers ... great exercise and some extra cash for the holidays: https://ups.managehr.com/Search.aspx?searchid=POP-DH&hr=1&pr=0&c=U&z=&r=&st=MD&ct=&jc=&k=&p=4&jg=&l=

 

 

TallChic
by on Nov. 8, 2009 at 2:55 PM

 

Check with your local churches. Many will help with childrens presents

                  
                                    
                   

psych_mom
by on Nov. 8, 2009 at 2:55 PM

I am sorry to hear this! I know how you feel. My hubby brings home $850 every two weeks, and we thought we were going to be able to afford gifts, but after doing our budget for the next couple of weeks, I am not sure that it's going to be possible, and of course we can't get help for our kids bc he "makes too much money". I feel terrible!

2and2onway
by Member on Nov. 8, 2009 at 2:56 PM

We are in the same boat you are in and we dont qualify for help because I home school my kids and they only accept applications for those with school aged children in public school. We may just do Christmas at tax time and just tell my 8 and 10 yr old the truth about Santa. The twins are 2 and dont understand. I pray things get better for you soon.

FOLLOW MY HOMESCHOOLING JOURNEY

EARN MONEY WITH ME

I am a proud wife and mother, I

home school my children, I CIO, I do not coddle but I do cuddle. I

am a FF, EBF, food loving mamma of 4 of the best and worst children. I

love them with all my heart and wouldnt trade them for the world!

Jeremiah 10, Briana 8, Braden and Sara 2


PollyMarie
by on Nov. 8, 2009 at 2:58 PM

You can try

FOOD- www.angelfoodministries.com

TO RECEIVE/GIVE DONATIONS- www.wishuponahero.com

for help.

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