Guess I'd be a grandma...Thank goodness it hasn't happened...I'm working on my 4th teen...
im not sure... but i wouldn't kick them out. i'd try to help them.
IDK honestly. I was a teen mom so I know how hard it is. I would hope that my kids would be alot more careful.
I would be upset but at the same time I would be happy because I think every baby is a blessing and I would support her 100%. If she chose adoption it would be very hard to see my Grandbaby go and I would probably talk her into letting her Daddy and I raise the baby till she thought she was able to financially do it, but if she was deadset on adoption I would support her.
I'd crap a brick! HECK I'D CRAP A CINDER BLOCK!
My mom always told me that if I ever got pregnant I would be 100% on my own. We are a tough love kind of family. My cousin got pregnant at 14 so her mom said to her I will support you if you never see the guy again or you can move out with him if you're so in love.... They got married , he was 17 and of course it didnt work out! She had a hard life and even though my aunt helped her out she had already chosen her path. My mom always told me if you are going to do adult things be prepared for adult sized consequences and to make adult decisions. I always knew I didnt want to rush to be an adult... So it worked for me.
I wouldn't be proud of him/her....but I'd make sure that baby was taken care of. .....
make her get a part time job before the baby is born, and then help her with the kid so she can finish school and possibly go to college. But I would make sure she at least finishes highschool no matter what.
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