do you think it's rude of the parent or the guest???
Okay here's my question...when attending a childs birthday party do you always come bearing a gift and if so how much should this gift be worth???
Now let's put the shoe on the other foot...when a child is attending your childs birthday party do you think that child should bring your kid a gift...and do you think a certain amout of money should be spent on your kiddo???
Or (because there is always another idea/opinion)...do you think birthday presants are okay and it doesn't matter how much money is spent as long as the presants are opened after the party and thank you cards are sent out...that way no one gets upset...