From DH for mothers day. Not even a card. I am not a materialistic person at all, I dont ask for much either. He used to put some effort into it, atleast got me a card and wrote a little in it, but anymore, nothing. I guess I am the one who does everything and takes care of it all, guess I didnt get the memo to buy myself a card from him LOL.
on a side note since my grandmom knows that he probably wont do anything, she got a card for the kids to give me as well as a hanging basket which I have been wanting. She got me a tulip as well.
well he got off of work yesterday and we had to drive to see his mom for a little bit. I had a roast in the crock pot and I was STARVING, so I was anxious to leave. He did acknowledge he did not get me anything not even a card and felt like a total A hole, but he had been working days and didnt go out. Not really an excuse since he could have took the car and went after work, but He had to have a beer every fricken day after work which then he could not drive. He said he would walk up and get a card for me, um at 6pm on mothers day? no, good luck with that, there is probably nothing left. So I heard the Ice cream man a few streets over and said You can get me a milk shake for mothers day, he went on about how he only had a little money left and needed cigarettes and put some gas in. I said oh ok, and walked in the room, almost in tears because once again his wants come before anyone elses. He then felt really really bad because I actually asked for it (which I hardly ever do) and went and got me one. he borrowed the money for cigarettes from his mom. we have plans to go out for dinner this week for a belated mothers day thing.