At least in the eyes of my 9 year old
She went to church today and I let her stay longer at her friends house (after church) while my dad, my son and I went to walmart.. I got her pack of gum.. (of course the wrong kind)
then she complained she HAD to stay at her friends house.. (nope she wanted to) and so on ..
so yeah I ruined everything so far in her little short 9year old life...